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Waiting for a Guarantee That Won’t Come

You want change, but only if the thing you care about comes with a survival guarantee—so, cute, the dilemma has a catch. You’d rather stay stuck than risk either loss, though fear keeping you unhappy sounds worse.

  1. If change might cost what matters, what would you choose?

    I’d want to change only if I knew it would survive.

  2. Without knowing what survives, what would you do?

    I’d rather stay undecided than risk either loss.

  3. Which regret would be harder to live with?

    Knowing fear kept me unhappy would be harder.