Parents, siblings, kids, and whether to have any. You can’t pick them. You can be grilled about them.
Is it selfish to not want kids?
Who are you disappointing by not wanting kids?
My partner.
Why do you think you have to be the one who stays?
Because I feel responsible for their happiness.
is it selfish to have a baby at 40
If having this baby keeps him, you'll do it even though you're not sure you want to?
Yes, I would.
Is that what you want this baby to be? A way to hold onto him?
I never thought about it like that. No. But what else am I supposed to do?
Do I need to forgive my sibling?
If nobody expected you to forgive your sibling, would you want to?
No, I feel pressured to forgive.
If you could stop feeling bitter without forgiving your sibling, would forgiveness still matter to you?
No, I only want to stop feeling bitter.