Moving, staying, moving back in. The new city won’t fix it. Go on, though.
Should I move back in with my parents to save money?
What are you actually trying to avoid by moving back in?
Mostly I just want to stop feeling like I'm failing at being an adult.
If you stop stressing about rent but still haven't hit those milestones, will that feeling go away?
It would help for a while, but I know I'd probably just start worrying about something else.
Is it selfish to move away from aging parents?
Did she ever ask you to stay?
I decided staying was the right thing.
If she said 'go,' would you still feel guilty?
Yes, I'd still feel like I'm abandoning them.
Is it time to move to a new city?
Do you actually want these relationships to continue?
I don’t want them, but I feel guilty letting them end.
Apart from getting away from these people, what about a new city do you want?
I can’t tell what I want from the city separately from the escape.
If they were polite and turned it down, would you feel better?
Part of me wants them to fight back
When was the last real disagreement where both sides got heard?
I can't remember